Command
BDSM Workshop Series
Take a Journey into Confident, Conscious Dominance
Step into your authority with skill, safety, and intention.
COMING SOON: This is your chance to access live and in-person training in the fundamental skills of the Dominatrix.
Calling all Kink Citizens, FemDoms, Lifestyle D/s Mistresses, Aspiring Dominatrixes/ProDoms and those interested in living a Female Led Relationship. This is the Course you have been waiting for.
Taught by one of Melbourne’s most highly experienced and respected practitioners, Mistress Zoe Demure in her private dungeon in Southbank.
If you’ve ever wondered:
Why is this fantasy so hot to me?
How far is too far?
How do I make sure my partner feels safe?
How do I play without causing harm?
This workshop series is for you.
Lets take your play and your domination to the next level!
What you will learn in our BDSM Workshop series: Command
“Command” is a 6 workshop series structured to give you the knowledge and tools to enable you to play as a Top/Dom in the BDSM space with Risk Aware Consensual KINK (RACK) and informed skill.
This educational series will give you the foundations you need to feel confident in your play, guiding you towards a deeper understanding and a practical skill set in BDSM. This is a pivotal step in your journey towards learning what to do with your submissive.
Why aspiring Mistresses and Dominatrixes will love Command
In-person workshops, not passive videos
Learn by watching, practicing, and refining your skills
Focused on real-world application, not theory alone
Small-group sessions for meaningful feedback
Designed for women
Inclusive, judgment-free, consent-centered
Confidential, supportive learning environment
Strong emphasis on emotional intelligence, safety, and professionalism
Command supports you in developing authentic dominance that aligns with who you are, not a persona you’re forced to perform.
“You don’t need to become someone else to be dominant.
You need permission, knowledge, and practice”Mistress Zoe Demure
Melbourne ProDomme, Dominatrix and BDSM Skill Educator
The 6 Command Workshops
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This is a skills-based workshop focused on safety, consent, professionalism, and aftercare.
Topics covered:
Negotiation and consent done right
Safety and what to do in a medical emergency
Managing challenging situations, stay in control when working with triggered partners, drug or alcohol affected and more
Partners with disabilities (physical sensory or cognitive) how to play with dignity, accessibility and consent
Psychological after-effects, understand sub drop and Dom drop
Legal awareness and practicalities, documentation and self-protection
Aftercare that actually works
If you want to negotiate better, respond smarter, and protect both yourself and others, this workshop is for you.
Your sub/bottom is not required for this workshop
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This practical, no-nonsense workshop is designed to take the mystery out of equipment and give you real-world knowledge you can trust.
Topics covered:
Up close equipment exploration, what each tool is and its correct use, common purchase mistakes and more
What works and what doesn’t, what tools are reliable and versatile, which ones underperform, how different bodies/skills/scenarios affect performance
Where to source good quality, body safe equipment, what to look for and how to avoid cheap or unsafe gear
How to clean and take care of your equipment
Whether you’re just starting out or refining your kit, this workshop will help you choose smarter, use better, and feel more confident with your tools.
Touch it. Learn it. Use it well!
Your sub/bottom is not required for this workshop
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This beginner-friendly, hands-on workshop is designed to teach you safe, functional, and confidence-building rope skills from the ground up.
Topics covered:
Safety fundamentals
Essential rope techniques, learn the different types of Ties and Harnesses every Top must know
Lots of hands on practice
You’ll leave with the ability to tie confidently, understand why each tie works, and know how to keep your partner safe while doing it.
Bring your sub to practice with or let us know if you need one provided
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This workshop is a structured, educational introduction to corporal punishment techniques, focusing on skill, safety, and intentional impact rather than guesswork or excess force. Designed for beginners and those refining their fundamentals, this is a practical, guided learning environment.
We’ll cover the mechanics, body positioning, aim, and control. You’ll be introduced to: Hand Spanking, Paddling, Flogging, and the art and techniques of the Crop, Belt, Strap, Whip and Cane.
Safety and best practice
Skill, control, precision and confidence
Reading physical and emotional responses
Building scenes with intention and care
By the end of this workshop you will understand whats possible during Impact Play, whats required to use the tools responsibly, skillfully, and safely.
Bring your sub to practice with or let us know if you need one provided
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Anal play is one of the most misunderstood, and most rewarding, areas of erotic exploration. When done poorly, it can be uncomfortable or intimidating. When done well, it can be profoundly pleasurable, intimate, and empowering.
Mistress Zoe invites you into a 3-hour, practice-based workshop designed to demystify anal play and teach you how to explore it safely, confidently, and consensually — whether you’re brand new, curious-but-nervous, or looking to deepen existing skills.
Topics covered:
Foundations of Anal Play including, anatomy & physiology, preparation and pacing
Prostate massage and fingering techniques
Strap on play
Safety considerations for fisting
Consent, Communication and Negotiation
Preparation and safety, prevention of cross contamination and cleaning considerations
Aftercare and emotional support
This workshop is for anyone looking to explore safely and confidently, those wanting to refine technique and curious newbies looking to learn.
Bring your sub to practice with or let us know if you need one provided
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Humiliation and Degradation (H&D) play can be one of the most intoxicating, erotic, and psychologically intense kink experiences, when done with care. It can also be deeply harmful when misunderstood, poorly negotiated, or inadequately repaired.
This immersive, 3 hour discussion-based workshop explores the full spectrum of humiliation and degradation: from playful teasing to edge-play taboo, from erotic shame to full objectification, always grounded in consent, ethics, and aftercare.
Topics covered:
Learn the types of Humiliation & Degradation Play
Learn the tools to negotiate comprehensively
Zoe will share her real life stories of H&D play and the lessons she has learnt along the way
Aftercare and emotional repair
Come learn how humiliation and degradation can be consensual, erotic, ethical, and deeply connective when practiced with skill.
Your sub/bottom is not required for this workshop
Pricing
6 Group Workshops
$250
per 3hr workshop
Buy all 6, get 1 free
$1,250
Check the workshop listings for when your sub will be welcome to attend with you
Your teacher
Mistress Zoe Demure
An experienced ProDomme with over 12 years of hands on experience, Mistress Zoe is also a dedicated educator, passionate about helping those new to the BDSM community to elevate their understanding and practice of this beloved art form. An informed, risk aware and consensual community is her goal. She thrives on genuine connections, and believes strongly in personal growth and healing through BDSM.
Her Dominatrix sessions and workshops are informed by a deep understanding of psychology and the therapeutic benefits of kink. Mistress Zoe holds an Honours Degree in Sociology and a Graduate Diploma in Counselling so well-being for all is forever at the core of her work.
Mistress Zoe plays a pivotal role in shaping Melbourne’s vibrant BDSM scene. With her hosted community events both social and educational at her venue, Studio of Secrets.
She also has the most engaging laugh and smile you will ever see.
Course will run early 2026
If you're ready to step into your authority—safely, consciously, and on your own terms enquire below.
Complete the form with a few details about yourself to express your interest.
You’ll also be among the first to hear when a date for the course has been set and enrollments are open.